Establishment

I ♥ Estrogen

They call it PMS because Mad Cow Disease was already taken

No offense ladies !

The Sin !

The way nature speaks our stupidity

Winter is the season in which people try to keep the house as warm as it was in the summer, when they complained about the heat.

People = Shit / Part 1

One of the irritating things about people , the way they act everytime they got accused for something wrong they do ! Instead of feeling guilty , admit doing a mistake , and trying to fix what they did ....... They can stare at you for hours to make you burn into ashes & make you feel guilty yourself ; assuming they have the right to accuse you for accusing them for pointing their mistakes justifying that with a silly reason , that adds nothing other than more stupidity to their whole situation !

The thing is that , most of the time we try to tell someone's mistakes , we do so from a caring point of view and for being involved in that person's life , but how disappointing it turns to be when we discover that they are nothing more than shit !

There is touch receptors in your mouth people

When it comes to food , I rank first in criticizing and nagging ; I knock on every issue related to it , the way it looks , the taste , the SMELL , the inter-mixture , how much extra something it needs , the viscosity , the hotness , the appetizers surrounding it , the plate its placed on , the combination of colors , ........ I can be really irritating , and sometimes i feel pity for my mom for being such an idiot !

Anyways , after a little quarrel about fatoosh , and how the toasted bread should be added just 5-10 minutes before the athan ; I was inspired to write this post !

One more thing to be added to the list above is the feeling of food , the way it meets yr lips , the way it is cut , the way it touches your tongue , the way it is crushed between your teeth , the way it is squeezed against your palate ........... There is touch receptors in your mouth people , enjoy them !

In the world of food , people differentiate between 2 terms , taste which is detected by tongue only , whereas flavor needs both tongue and nose .... But I think a third term should be introduced including the smell , taste , & touch to give the good food the right expression ;)

Warm up

Purity

Diamonds and coal , what a contradiction , but they are both made of the same one element that occupies the 6th place in the periodic table , its considered to be one of the most abundant element in the whole universe , Carbon it is . However , it is all due to simple laws of physics that make the huge difference between the two compounds , and it is why one is priceless and the other is worthless , it is why we like to posses one and repel the other , its why we cherish the sparkling of one and depreciate the incineration of the other . Thus , no one consider himself unlucky for having a diamond , and no one consider himself lucky for having a piece of charcoal .

This contradiction exists in the same manner between humans . Just by looking around , you will find yourself surrounded by lots of people , most of them doesn’t deserve any time to be wasted on , but few – and only few - are precious and worth fighting for , those are the diamonds we should be searching & treasuring !

Despite my lust and crave for diamonds , I have reached a phase where I couldn’t care less for collecting more to add to my treasure box , although I have not so many . In one stage of life , it starts to get difficult to make new friends , at which we have a list of different concerns and interests in which bothering to establish new friendships is not listed ! Whether it was fate or luck , no matter which , some times we are blessed with diamonds that fall from the sky just right into our treasure box , thats for which we should be thankful and grateful !

Some people are real diamonds ! They are pure & sparkling ; spreading their charm everywhere , adding new meanings of joy , changing the definition of tedious moments , coloring the smiles on our faces , shining with their brightness our path , & planting hope into our souls .
Feeling lucky for having a pure diamond added to my collection !

Inspired by T.Z.

The Spark

Can we blame the person who lit the spark !
Everyone has his own problems that keep him awake all night thinking , and keep him away from functioning properly with others .

But if we just rewind the whole scenario of events that led to this shity situation , usually we find a very tiny small thing that if was avoided from the very first beginning could have saved us excessive neuronal firing in our limbic system !

However ; once we get there , we will either start bewailing & regretting fate that opened the door for that offender to sneak into our lives , or we will start condoling and convincing ourselves that it wasn't worth all the mess from the start .

That trivial event represents a spark , which is all what is needed for a chain of reactions to take place leading to a major life event .

But logically speaking , we might start wondering if we are justified to put all of our rage and blame that event ! Is it really the spark ? Or maybe its just fate that created & provided all the needed surrounding factors and arranged it perfectly to be there in the same time and exact place for a certain thing to happen ! Or is it us , who decide to respond in a way and behave in such a manner that contributes to the final event .

Well , what I am really sure of is that sometimes we are forced to get into a train , where we can't stop or get off until it reaches its final station . In such scenarios we don’t have much to do or say , and its going to be totally foolish to blame the person who built the railroad , but the person who pushed you to get in ...... Mmmmm , maybe you want to reconsider the whole thing from there !

People = Shit

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Anesthetics

In medicine we learned to treat causes not symptoms , and this what makes the difference between a good & a bad doctor , but sometimes we are impelled to deal with the symptoms first , either to gain more time with a nagging patient till we reach a diagnosis , or to relieve the patient’s annoying complain which in the first place is part of the management!

But what would incompetent doctors do , is starting to treat the symptoms without trying to relate them to a cause that would provide a good explanation for what is going around ; in order to target the management toward the underlying cause!

Sometimes in real life we - ourselves - are incompetent doctors ! Bing a human being living on earth , you will be having an extreme continuous susceptibility to find yourself in the middle of trouble . And by our nature , an urge to dismiss yourself from such situations rises , to reach a stress-free life.

Our ways to attain this goal differ according to the situation ,the size of the problem , & our competency . Some would be targeted directly against the cause , which would terminate the whole process forever , others are considered to be half solutions . Some other trials are not even solutions , they are just some ....... anesthetics ! Anesthetics that are used to numb our feelings , and as soon as its duration of action falls , you will start complaining and feeling the pain once more again , because you had never reached the cause of pain.

In life we always do that , we always lean on people who could get us joy , maybe by them just being around , and we do that to escape our fears , to detour away from our problems …….. or maybe to numb our feelings.

But the biggest disappointment & the time when it hurts the most , is the time when you reach to your anesthetics and you find NONE.

Coldness

Either a 100% or its a Failure

Inspired by the Fun Day at the SOS yesterday

I know myself to be hardly satisfied and pleased in so many ways , and I have this general rule to judge myself , before applying it to people . Actually I don't care much about judging people , and if I do so , I like my opinion to be heard and listened to , and to be recognized as an advice not as criticism to point out someone's mistakes and thats it !

Back to the rule , it says " Its either a 100% success or its a failure " Well , I know perfection is impossible here on earth , so I ll be ok with a 90% .

Its difficult to have a single scale to measure success with , since everyone would have his own definition ; for me I like to be harsh on myself and take the bumpy way in judging my work , behavior , attitude , & personality . I like my work to be mistake-free , although it is some how impossible ! And it is like never going to happen , since I am too human .

Anyways , to be honest with you , I get annoyed and stung deep in the heart when someone starts pointing out my mistakes , not that I take things personally , but because I missed again , I screwed up again , or lets say I FAILED again . A mistake making more than 10% for me is a TOTAL FAILURE .

Despite the hassle and the bothersome feeling I ll be in , I get excited , agitated , and even turned on to listen to my mistakes and to know where did I screw up . And to the records , I consider this to be my best part , because I believe its the key for perfection . The reason for that , that I start looking to the future , imagining myself in the same situation again , trying to come up with ideas to avoid doing these mistakes again , to reach perfection / success , and live happily ever after , H3 !

Echo

I could save myself lots of trouble , if I could just listen to myself !

The problem is that you could have the ability to give advices , look at things from different angles , and offer lots of help to others ; but when it comes to yourself , your situation & problems , you stand there incapable of giving yourself the right advice , or even you cant think about he whole issue in a proper way ! Still , the worst happens when you cant just REPEAT what you used to say to others !